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November 11, 2017September 4, 2020

Mistakes, Errors, and Goofs: How to Address and Avoid Them

There are so many mistakes out in the world just waiting to be made, and so many unwitting people ready to make them. Some mistakes are little (“I called the mailman by the wrong name”), some are big (“I called the mailman by the wrong name, then I made out with him to try and fix it”), and some are catastrophic (“I’m having an affair with the mailman, and I’m not sure what his name is”). stress-anxious-wrong-mistake-failure-stupid-frustrated-blunder-burn out

Per the dictionary, a mistake is something a person does that is “misguided or wrong.” There are cases where “It was an accident” can be a legitimate defense, but there are some cases where that just isn’t going to fly (see the aforementioned affair with the postal carrier). Generally, we judge people more harshly if we think they did something bad and wrong “on purpose.”

The first and biggest step you can take towards fixing a goof-up is by acknowledging it. That’s true in the world of application coding as well, where there are two kinds of errors that occur during execution: the ones that are expected to happen, known as exceptions, and the ones that aren’t expected, which are known as simply errors. Those definitions can work for our personal lives as well: sometimes you expect to screw up, whereas other times it catches you by surprise. Either way, you can’t do much of anything until you accept that it’s either happened or, in some cases, is still happening.

Once you do that, you have to try and make amends. Sometimes a simple “I’m sorry” will work. Sometimes “I’m really, really sorry” will get the job done. Those generally work better if you admit the error as soon as possible. That way the wronged party doesn’t have time to let whatever happened build up in their head. One common piece of advice given to couples is “Don’t go to bed angry.” That’s because the anger can fester and grow while you’re asleep, which makes the whole problem harder to resolve.

We’ve all seen cases where public figures screw up and try to paper over it with a weak apology. In cases like that, they’ve either got a bad publicist, or they’ve got no publicist at all. Any publicist worth their salt has a sixth sense for figuring out just how bad a scandal their client is dealing with, and will be able to guide their client towards making the proper response.

Speaking of proper responses, never say, “I’m sorry to anyone who was offended.” That suggests that you don’t really think you did anything wrong, and you just want people to get off your back about it. That suggests you’re not sorry you did it, but only sorry that you got caught. Something like, “I sincerely apologize to those people who were hurt by my actions” is better. That way, the hurt you caused isn’t just hypothetical.

With that in mind, consider the following suggestion: your workplace has just started using video conferencing by Polycom, and you’re told to take part in a big meeting with a client who lives three time zones away. Maybe you forgot to drink enough coffee this morning, or maybe you just had a brain spasm and forgot where you were, but somehow, the client pops up on video and you immediately say, “Wow, you look terrible.” You’ll likely be tempted to run out of the office, leave town, and start a new life in South America. Instead, though, you should stay where you are and apologize immediately. You may or may not be able to save your job at this point, but since the client almost definitely heard you, covering it up isn’t going to work. You have to own it, and that means owning the consequences as well.
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November 10, 2017August 10, 2020

10 Accessories Every Dog Needs

10-Accessories-Every-Dog-Needs Dogs are more than just pets — they serve as best friends, even children, to their human companions. It is totally understandable why you want to give your canine friend toys and accessories that will keep him safe and entertained. The list below includes some of the products that your dog will need. From safety gear to cute furnishings, you are sure to find cool new stuff that your dog will love.

GPS tracker clips

Losing track of a pet is a dog-lover’s nightmare. It can be unnerving and panic-inducing if you fail to find your dog after a few minutes of searching. You can avoid unnecessary grief by attaching a GPS tracker clip to your dog’s collar. This device shows the location of your dog through your smartphone, allowing you to quickly and easily locate his whereabouts.

Martingale collar

It is advised that you use Martingale dog collars if you need to train your dog to walk with a leash. This particular collar design features 2 loops of webbing that tighten and apply equal pressure on the neck when pulled. It trains your dog not to pull, but it also does not choke the dog or damage its trachea — unlike traditional collars.

Water fountain

This simple device ensures your dog is hydrated any time of the day. Place it in your garden or backyard or anywhere your dog loves to play in. When your dog is thirsty, he’ll just come to the pedal and press it to drink — fresh water on demand!

Dog umbrella

Don’t let rain get in the way of an exhilarating walk with your pet. Make sure he’s ready to hit the streets regardless of the weather by giving him a dog umbrella. This cute umbrella is attached to the leash, allowing your dog to walk in the rain without getting soaked.

Dog treadmill

You may be intent on walking your dog every day, but the season can prevent you from doing that. If it’s too hot or too cold for a walk, you can exercise your dog using a dog treadmill. This device is made for dogs of all sizes and it can keep your dog busy and entertained without ever needing to step outside your house.

Litter box

No, a litter box is not only for cats. This patch of grass can be used by your dog anywhere around your house. It lasts for a week and it can be thrown out easily, thanks to its cardboard box bottom.

Lights or reflectors

Keep your dog safe when you walk or run at night by using reflective collars or vests. Alternatively, you can purchase a LED light clip-on and attach it to your dog’s collar. This way, you and the people you share the road or park with can easily spot your dog in the dark.

Paw wax

Show your dog some love and massage his paws using a paw wax. This product is not just for relaxation, though! The wax adds another layer of protection for the feet, acting like a pair of booties that keep your dog comfortable when walking on ice, sand, salt, or concrete.

Dog mansion

Your dog can live the high life inside a luxury dog house. These high-end mansions are made to order and built using really tough wood and glass. Imagine all the cute photos that you can take with your dog in his grandiose home.

Bamboo hammock dog bed

Give your dog a nice hammock dog bed to retire and relax into after hours of running and playing. This high quality bamboo hammock is comfortable and comes with a stain resistant suede cushion that’s guaranteed to give your pet unlimited hours of good sleep.

There are a lot of options in the market today if you feel like indulging your dog. Adding these items to your home will not only give your dog a one-of-a-kind experience, it will also make the time you spend with your pet more memorable. Which of these items will your furry companion enjoy best?

November 9, 2017October 15, 2020

How To Take Proper Care of Natural Nails

Nail-clipping should be straightforward enough—trim them when they get long, roughly every few weeks. But that baseline regimen barely scratches the surface of proper nail care. With the right adjustments and Intel, you can prevent hangnails, minimize trimmings, and maintain smooth geometric perfection. No need to see a manicurist, either: You can do it all from the comfort of your toilet seat. The cuticle expert gave us her top tips—to get your nail care game where it needs to be: Proper-Care-of-Your-Nail

Don’t cut straight across

When cutting your fingernails, be certain you’re using one of those smaller, rounded-blade clippers; they’re the ones designed for fingers, and they work well on your smaller toes. Check out the reviews of best nail clippers from BestViva to make the best purchase. They cut cleanly without crushing or cracking nails.

When using the rounded fingernail clippers, you still need to cut the nails at an angle, since the curve of the blade doesn’t match the curve of your nail. “A common mistake men and women make when trimming their own nails is the angle at which they approach it,” says Lippmann. “Clipping straight-on can bend and ultimately damage the nail.”

The nails should (literally) reflect your cuticles

If you’re unsure of what shape your nails should have, just look at your cuticles. Imagine your nail as an oval—an odd oval, yes. The U-shape of the cuticle should be reflected (upside down) by the top of your nail. And, since the top is often wider than the cuticle, you may have to adjust for size; the primary goal here is to mirror the shape.

Leave a little white

As for nail length, there’s a small spectrum of acceptable lengths. You should leave at least a sliver of “white” at the top of your nails—that space where the nail starts to separate from the skin it protects. (One or two millimeters, in our book.) If you look at your fingers from the side, the whites of the nails shouldn’t be so long that they start to divorce the rounded shape of the finger. If the nail is so long that it extends past the fingertips, you’re due for a trim.

Start filing your nails, and do it right

You’re not going to get a smooth, perfect cut with the nail clippers—that’s just step one. And, while many clippers come with a built-in file, it’s a sub-par option compared to an Emory board file. “An Emory board is how you get even nails, shaped to perfection,” says Lippmann. You can use one to smoothen the arch of the nails after a trim, or you can file your nails every few days to maintain a standard length.

Tend to the cuticles

Push and clip your cuticles weekly. That’s the best way to prevent painful hangnails from developing. Many nail clippers have an attachment that helps uproot excess skin. Very gently pry this skin upward so that it’s easy to trim. “These are the only pieces of skin that you should nip,” says Lippmann. “The cuticle protects nails from infection, so if cut improperly, it allows bacteria and fungus to infect the nail bed.”

Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize

Apply hand lotion daily, and distribute it to the nails. Do this immediately following any self-administered manicuring, too. Lotion is both an offense and defense: It will keep nails polished and strong, while nourishing any lingering hangnails or freshly nipped cuticles.

November 8, 2017October 7, 2020

Don’t Let Where You Live Stop You From Going to Rehab

There’s a lot of media hype about drugs turning cities into urban hellholes. Yes, some cities do have large drug problems, but cities aren’t the only places where people can get addicted to drugs or alcohol. It happens to plenty of people who live in rural areas as well. Think about life out in the country. There’s not much to do on the weekend except maybe go to a high school football game. Or you could get some alcohol from your friend’s older brother and have a big party. Don’t-Let-Where-You-Live-Stop-You-From-Going-to-Rehab.

When people are feeling bored and aimless, they’re more likely to get in trouble. That doesn’t mean moving to a big city with lots of street festivals will save you from a life of addiction, because life is never that simple. But plenty of rural teens have gotten addicted to drugs or alcohol. Some parents think that moving their kids out into the country will save them from bad influences, but there are bad influences everywhere nowadays.

But even if living in a small town won’t necessarily save you from addiction, it also doesn’t have to doom you. You can still get help even if you’re not near a major metro area. You may have to travel farther or seek outpatient services, but it absolutely can be done.

Explore your options

It’s important to know that there are rehab facilities located in all kinds of places. Some facilities even seek out smaller towns because they want their residents to have fewer distractions from the outside world. And the centers in big cities serve plenty of people from outlying areas as well. A place like Beachway Therapy Center is committed to helping residents in Tampa with addiction, but it’s also devoted to helping residents from all over Florida and the Southeast.

Health insurance coverage plays a large role in where and how people get help for their issues as well. Some insurance companies may want you to go to facilities in a certain area or network, but if you’re willing to jump through some insurance hoops, you should be able to find a situation that works for you. A change of scenery can do wonders for you mentally as well. You have plenty of options that don’t include staying in your hometown and slowly wasting away due to drugs or alcohol.

You have to be ready to make a change before going to rehab. Most addicts have to hit rock-bottom before they can admit they have an issue. It should go without saying, but if you or someone you’re with looks like he or she is overdosing, call 911. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the middle of a big city or in the middle of nowhere. It’s not the time to worry about police finding you with drugs; this is a life or death situation that requires immediate medical attention.
A trip to the hospital is enough to scare some people straight, but you shouldn’t try to detox on your own. Detoxing is hard on the mind and body, and you should do it in a controlled setting. You can beat addiction, but it’s best to have a team full of professionals on your side when you start the fight.

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