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September 23, 2019

4 Questions To Ask When Hiring A Limo Service For Your Prom

Prom is one of the best times in a teenager’s life. They usually take months to plan every little detail, from the outfits, makeup, and even transportation. After all, you want everything to be perfect so that you can look back to your prom in the future and know that it was one of the best moments in your life.

While looking for a limo service might not be in your list of priorities, it is actually a very important part of your day. Just imagine not being able to book your preferred mode of transportation? This could put a damper on an otherwise perfect prom. That being said, you need to make sure that you are only getting the best limo service. Here are some questions that you should be ready to ask all your potential limo service suppliers.

What are the services they offer? – Of course, the first thing you should ask is what services they offer. Depending on the company, they can offer several services based on the events. Since you are booking a limo for a prom, ask them what is included in the payment. You might think you are saving when you pay a very low amount, only to find out that parking, fuel and driver fees are not yet included in the fee that was given to you. Also, make sure to understand what their safety policies are
What are the qualifications of their chauffeurs? – The cars or limos are not the only things you should be asking about. More importantly, you want to make sure that whoever will drive you to the event is qualified. It’s not just about being a good driver. Limo companies that are reliable must also make sure to check the background of their employees and also make sure that they know the policies of the company. You may also want to check if they are part of any organization for limo services. This will ensure that they strive to be accountable to the industry.
What are their options for the vehicles? – Ask them what cars they offer. If you are traveling with just your date, then you just need the standard traditional stretch limousine. But if you plan to go to prom with your friends and their dates, you will need a limo that can accommodate everyone in your group. You can start looking for companies that can offer a stretch SUV or even a mini-coach so that you can all arrive at the event in style.
What is the booking process? – You might think that it’s okay to just book a limo service a week before prom. But you might end up with a company with subpar cars and unreliable service. It’s better to start looking early so that you can get the best service for the best price. If you have already found the supplier you want, ask if you can already make a reservation for your prom. Some are able to book as early as three months before the event.

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September 23, 2019

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September 22, 2019

Finding Expert Advice In Any Community

What Is an Expert?

There are many definitions of an expert. Webster’s dictionary defines an expert as having or displaying special skills or knowledge. Many skills fit that definition. For example, Evil Knievel was an expert at jumping over obstacles with his motorcycle. You could also say that the following are experts too: a world championship Black Jack card player, an XGames Gold Medalist snowboarder, a World Alpine Gold Medalist Slalom skier, and, lastly, a world championship-winning sumo wrestler. But some less glorious experts deal with simple things in their life. For example, the seamstress who is an expert at adding stitches to a dress, a carpenter who always hits the nail on the head when he designs custom cabinets for his clients, an archery coach who instructs youth in the art of shooting a bullseye from 50 meters. All of these people are considered to be experts.

Becoming a Pro of Common Things

It seems that everyone has an idea of what an expert should be these days. If you look in the newspapers, listen to the news, and follow the hottest topics online, you will no doubt be held captive by advertisements from real pros who advertise their expert skills. But there is a debate at websites like Guru, Fiver, Upwork, and others that there is more to becoming an expert than meets the eye. Experts must be able to pass tests, answer difficult questions, and do things like no one else has done before. In short, we have entered the world of the everyday pro who, after spending hours or even years working with a tool or an object, has become a pro.

Becoming an Inside Gardening Expert

For a gardener, it is a must for them to be able to wield a hoe or shovel, know how to apply certain kinds of chemicals to kill bugs, but save the vegetable plant. The same person with a “green thumb” would want to become an expert in what kind of plant they would place in an indoor container to produce fruit the following year. They instinctively know that an indoor plant knows it needs more rich soil than their outdoor plants require and must have their roots protected from the cold in the winter.

Getting To a Real Expert

The same kind of qualifications to become an expert could also be required of a bonsai tree grower, a butterfly collector, a bird watcher, and a “rainmaker.” Becoming an everyday pro is often handed down from generation to generation like the Hyena men of Nigeria who tame hyenas, baboons, and snakes to dance and perform tricks as a way of nomad living. They visit different towns throughout Nigeria where they sell their herbs and perform their ceremonial dances. In the case of such dangerous actions, a person doesn’t have to worry about identifying the real experts from the false because the wild animals would fatally wound the wrong expert.

Breadth and Depth of Recognition

Though the world does not hail them as experts, there are local heroes and experts to those who depend upon their skills. Just as the African Pygmie tribe depends upon their witch doctor to concoct a potion to heal a dying boy, an expert is someone who often has to rise to the occasion to make a difference in someone’s life and is successful in their willingness to share with others the talents they have accumulated in working with the simple things in their life. Don’t we call a secretary of a busy office an expert in organization, dictation, and keeping the office in good order. The experts in the above examples are all called experts because, in many ways, they are experts in what they do and love doing. They are people who have developed a deep proficiency in something that has been placed at the service of others, and they gain universal respect in society. Wherever we go, we will always find everyday experts in society that are important in the local or broader community for daily operation. Their knowledge can be passed down to others who will continue the journey.
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September 22, 2019

Tips to Get Your Ex Girlfriend to Love You Again

You’re a nice guy, you never hit her, you brought her nice things, but you screwed up one time and she’s gone. It may not be fair, but it does happen. Unfortunately, you still love her, and you know that she still loves you. She’s just pissed.

Do you want her back? Probably. Do you deserve her back? Well, maybe, maybe not, but you really do want her back. So, what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back?

What Went Wrong?

This is probably the hardest question to try and find an answer for. If you did something specific, maybe you cheated on her, or if you’ve been arguing a lot lately, you may be able to identify the final straw. But, rarely is the final catalyst that resulted in her leaving the core root of the problem within your relationship.

Chances are that she’s not ready to talk with you about it, and relationships are hard, she may not even be able to pinpoint the exact problem. However, there are usually a few root causes that you can see if they applied to your relationship.
Communication Breakdown

Communication issues are a huge cause of any relationship breakdown (see here), and a lot of the time you can’t even understand what she’s talking about. You listen to everything she says. The problem isn’t really that you aren’t listening, it’s that she feels you haven’t been paying attention. This may drive you a bit nuts trying to decipher the cryptic code, but it when you crack it you will have taken communication to a whole new level and be improving your relationship.

You listen, but how do you respond? You both come home from a hard day at work, she asks “how was your day?” and you launch into a story about something hideous that happened, she offers sympathy and agrees with you that it was horrible. What happens next? Do you ask her how her day was? Or do you carry on talking about your story?

If you don’t show any interest in her day, she will not feel valued. Yes, it is wonderful having something to talk to about problems you’ve faced during the day, and it can be easy to get caught up in the joy of being able to unload. But think about how nice it feels being able to share the crap with her – and don’t you think she’d like to be able to do the same? Try to make a conscious effort to actually be interested in what she is doing.

Trying To Fix Everything

Do you talk to your girlfriend or do you listen to what she says and try to offer helpful advice? Believe it or not, she probably doesn’t actually want advice, she just wants support. Mindless “oh dear, oh no, oh that’s terrible” doesn’t cut it. From you, she needed acknowledgment of the problem and encouragement to fix the problem herself.

Rather than launching straight into helping, ask her what she needs. If you agree that the situation is pretty terrible, say so. If you think she’s overreacting, instead of telling her to calm down, express that you’re on her side, but ask how the situation came to happen. If she gets to talk about it, she may come to the conclusion that she overreacted, or you may realize that she’s been dealing with the same crap day after day and finally lost the plot on something that seemed so innocent. If you had launched straight into trying to fix the situation all that happens is you don’t know what the problem really was, and you become the focus for her anger. Not because you deserve it, but because you can be a safe place for her to vent her continuing frustration at. No, you shouldn’t put up with abuse, but you can let her rant and realize that it’s not you, it is her that is voicing her feelings.

Not Enough Time Together

This is another common problem for modern couples – it can be really hard to try and find time to have a meaningful time together. In fact, this can be a huge part of the cause of communication breakdown. For topics that are really close to peoples hearts they often need time to be able to bring themselves to talk about it – and if there isn’t any time, they don’t get spoken about. Which means that a minor annoyance like toast crumbs in the butter, become a festering wound of annoyance – and before you know it there’s a screaming match and you’re wondering why the toilet seat caused the end of your relationship.

You don’t need to have romantic dinners out, but you do need to have one-on-one time together in a situation that allows you to relax and enjoy each other’s company – and to talk. Just being able to share mundane thoughts makes it easy to clear the air about minor irritations. From here you are building a strong relationship which allows you to communicate about the big stuff.

Getting Back Together

The whole point of going through this exercise in self-reflection is ultimately to get your ex-girlfriend back. But, after going through all of this, do you still think it will work between you? Yes, you love her, but chances are that you are both going to have to make some changes in order to get your relationship to be working the way you’d like it to. Is this something that you think can happen? People in love are supposed to have better ability to have self-control than those who are single, so think of yourself as in love and focus on your next step related study source

If you are sitting there with a list of things that she has done wrong and ways in which she needs to change, then you probably need to start working on your list again. The old saying of “it takes two to tango” is true, and in relationships, there always needs to be a certain level of giving and take from both people to make it work. You may feel that you have been doing all the compromising, but often the areas where you have been “compromising” are the exact areas she wants you to stand your ground.

Relationships do take work, and taking your partner for granted is the easiest way to lose them.
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